The Story
Before you read this second part of the Community Christmas story, be sure to read part 1 here.
All the comments and debriefing after our first Community Christmas were positive. Stories came in from the fire department about stuffed animals given to children after a fire. Food was distributed. Pastors and music directors of the churches were excited about the collaboration with other churches. We learned a lot about how to improve it for the following year. And after such a huge success, of course God wanted us to do it again.
We started planning the second Community Christmas in March, reaching out to the eleven churches who participated and returning to the ones that didn’t to see if they’d like to this year. The same churches were all on board. At first…
The first sign of trouble was when one of the more liberal churches got a new pastor, a man married to another man. This immediately set up division between those pastors who were okay with this and those who were not.
My own pastor was not on board with this. The previous year we ended the program by encouraging audience members to attend one of the churches listed on the back of the program. This year my pastor, who initially said we could not participate at all, was at least willing to compromise with the situation by saying our church could join in the event if we did not make that statement at the end.
Scheduling the high school auditorium was another issue. We could not coordinate the same weekend around school events on those dates. Opposition arose from a few people associated with the school and some people from non-participating churches. Around mid-October at our planning meeting, we were looking at the cascading events blocking our way. We finally looked at each other and realized we could go no further. The event was cancelled.
The Moral
The moral of the story is don’t assume something God blesses once will be blessed again. In our excitement over what just happened last Christmas I don’t recall going to God to ask if he wanted us to repeat it. Human nature says if something is successful, you just do it again.
I’m reminded of the battles listed in the book of Joshua as the Israelites were conquering the promised land. After Jericho fell their cockiness told them to attack Ai with just a small number of troops. They were badly defeated by a much smaller foe. After they eliminated the sin in their camp, God told them how to attack Ai, splitting the army and setting half in front of the city and half behind in ambush, a very different tactic than any other battle they fought.
Isaiah 43:19 says, “Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it?” God has limitless ways to accomplish his will in our churches, families, and communities. When we take time to allow him to show us his ways, then he is the one being glorified, not us. We already had the planning/production team in place for year two. We had churches on board, drama picked out, songs selected. We were going to make this a success. God had other ideas. So the moral here is always, ALWAYS seek God before assuming he wants to repeat a successful event. He may just want to do a new thing.
Just as the previous Community Christmas was one of the greatest successes I’ve been a part of, Community Christmas 2.0 was one of my greatest failures. But in every failure there are glimmers of good. The relationships forged among the leadership team remain strong even now fourteen years later. Clarity emerged among the two camps of churches (liberal/conservative) about how to bring the gospel to our city and where our points of collaboration could be.
My Worship Think Tank returned to the table to see what God did want for our Christmas event. What materialized the following year was much improved over the WinterSong we had done previously. New leaders emerged within my church that had been overlooked before. While it was still entertaining and the gospel presented, it was much more of a worship event than previous years. We realized that people, believers and unbelievers, really want to sing familiar Christmas songs at Christmas. Through that participation God can open up hearts to the beautiful theology contained in many of those carols. This was the model at that church for several years afterward.
Remember, the only real failure is one we do not learn from.